Inland Empire ACA Intergroup

ACA Family Types

 

In addition to alcoholic and addicted families, there are at least five other family types that can produce Adult Children.

  • Homes with mental illness in the parent(s).
  • Homes with hypochondriac parent(s).
  • Homes with ritualistic beliefs, harsh punishment, and extreme secretiveness, often with ultra-religious or sadistic overtones. Some of these homes expose children to battery and other forms of criminal abuse.
  • Homes with covert or actual sexual abuse, including incest and inappropriate touching or dress by the parent(s).
  • Perfectionistic, shaming homes in which expectations are often too high and praise is typically tied to an accomplishment rather than given freely. \

Source: pp. 57-58 of The Big Red Book of Adult Children of Alcoholics

Additionally, there are homes with religious abuse that can include harsh treatment at the hands of well-meaning people. While we realize God’s love in Step Three, we acknowledge that many adult children have been spiritually abused and struggle with a concept of God in addition to struggling with control.
 
Source: pp. 148-149 of The Big Red Book of Adult Children of Alcoholics
 
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Commonality = shame/abandonment

 
 Source: p. 58 of The Big Red Book of Adult Children of Alcoholics